moss vs Microsoft Family Safety

Free screen time limits for Windows, Xbox and Android, with a request and approve flow.

Checked 11 November 2026 against Microsoft Corporation's own pages. We make moss, so we have linked every source below.

What Microsoft Family Safety is

Microsoft Family Safety is Microsoft's family group tool. A parent, as family organizer, sets screen time limits on Windows 10 and 11 PCs, Xbox consoles and Android apps and games, filters the web in Microsoft Edge, and can see location. The app is free on the App Store, where it is used to manage the family. The Microsoft pages we read list screen time limits for Windows, Xbox and Android, and none for iPhone. Web and search filters work only in Edge, and Microsoft says other common browsers are blocked for that to work.

What moss is

moss is an iPhone app that comes with a small physical stone. You choose the apps that distract you, tap your phone on the stone, and those apps stay locked until you tap the stone again. People who live together can link their phones to share schedules and put their phones down at the same time, while each person keeps control of their own phone. Locking is free in the app, the stone is a one-time purchase, and the household features are a paid add-on.

Side by side

FeaturemossMicrosoft Family Safety
PriceUS$49 stone, free appFree on the App Store
SubscriptionNone to lock your own phone. Household features are a paid add-onNone listed for the app
Works oniPhone only, iOS 17 or laterScreen time limits on Windows 10 and 11, Xbox and Android. The iOS app manages the family
How you lockTap the stone, or start from the app, a Shortcut, the lock screen or the Action Button. Schedules by day of weekThe parent sets screen time limits and content filters
How you unlockTap the stone, in the appThe child sends a request and the parent approves or adds time
If you need back in3 emergency unlocks a month, refilled automaticallyUp to the parent, by request
Locking together as a householdYes, as a paid add-on. Shared schedules, sessions others join in one tap, a view of whose phone is down, a streak. Nobody controls anyone elseOne-way: the organizer controls child accounts and sees activity summaries
Whose key opens your phoneOnly your household's own stone, card and sprigs unlock your phonesThe parent's Microsoft account

Where Microsoft Family Safety is better

  • It limits Windows PCs and Xbox consoles, which a phone app cannot touch.
  • It is free.
  • A built-in way for a child to ask for more time.

Where moss is better

  • moss locks apps on an iPhone, which the Microsoft pages we read do not list.
  • Nobody manages anybody. Each person locks their own phone.

Who should pick which

Pick Microsoft Family Safety if

Your child's screen time is mostly on a Windows PC or an Xbox.

Pick moss if

Your household uses iPhones and wants to put them down together.

Sources

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moss is a stone that locks the apps you choose.

Tap to lock, tap to unlock. One price, and locking needs no subscription.

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